Having a gay best friend is the best thing that could have happen to me. But after many years, children, and just day-to-day reality, our sex. It's more than having a shopping partner, getting mani/pedis, and reading Cosmo together.
We look within ourselves to understand why when sometimes the answer is who is beside us while we are asking. Jordan Gray thinks it’s strange that people assume he and his male friends are dating, simply because of how they act with each other. Q: I’ve been mostly happily married for 15 years. Women who think Im gay talk to me about shopping, which is perfect, because I love shopping, and everyone always mentions their best gay friends to me. Being in a same-sex relationship was new territory and. I have never met a person who struggled with "why?" that didn't deserve to be loved. First of all, Im not supposed to feel this way about my gay best friend. I wish I could answer the question why for you and have it answer all the questions you have about who you are and if you are loved. I really wanted to know if I was going to be okay.
If a 5 year old asks why people get sad they may be happy with the answer, "it's just the way we are made." If a 25 year old asks the question, "Why am I gay?" and wants to know how sexuality comes to be it is a different thing than then same 25 year old asking "Why am I gay?" and really meaning "Will I be happy?" I asked the question "Why am I gay?" and "Why me?" often at one point. To really answer any why question you have to know to what use the person is going to put the answer. Why questions are the hardest questions in the human language.